Each of us is defined by its “male” or feminine sex, by its history, experiences, thoughts, projects, desires and sexuality. If for some everything flows from source, sometimes things are more complicated..
Sexual identity
This is your way of seeing and identifying you, and the way you are socially recognized. It is a very personal and intimate feeling. Everyone feels and considers himself to be “a man”, as “a woman”, neither one another or a small mixture of both.
Biologically, we are born boy or girl and we often think that biological sex at birth defines the person in male or female. Yet there are nuances. Yes, some people may be born with genital organs both male and female. These people are "intersexed" because they have genital characteristics of both sexes.
Sexual orientation
It is your sexual and/or love appeal to another person with whom you feel intimately at ease. This can be for people of the same sex as you (homosexual) or the other sex (heterosexual) or both (bisexuality). Whatever your sexual orientation, it is the most personal aspect of your sexuality and it belongs to your private sphere. Know that it may be called to change several times aware of your existence.
Knowing to listen
These preferences can be felt secretly and become painful if you are not sincere to yourself, for fear of saying or confessing to it. You must listen deeply. You feel it, you know it, you discover it gradually or you have always known it inwardly. It takes time to accept and live fully according to their own desires without following what others say and do.
And listen to the others
Know that in the face of sexist and sexist stereotypes, only your attitude of openness will help those “girls or boys” who question to respect and accept themselves. Each person may have a different perception or opinion but always in respect of the other.